Kink - Day 1 of 30

Q. Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

A. Up until recently I have been a Dom, although now I am switching and exploring the 'sub' side of me.

I know I have a whole world to explore in BDSM, and that I have only taken the first few steps.

My Dom side - When I started being a Dom for puppy, I discovered that I enjoyed being in control and further that I enjoyed being sadistic. Getting pleasure out of puppy's pain, knowing that he also gained pleasure from me giving him pain.The sense of power of being a Dom is quite tantalising, and slightly wicked....The control is delicious.

My sub side - On the flip side, I love the vulnerability of being bound and the feeling of being brutally exposed. Just thinking about having no control, makes my heart race. I feel more comfortable and more natural in my submissive side, as after the few years of being dominant to puppy...I still find that it can be tough.

Does that define me as a switch? 

I am not sure I can give an in-depth definition of BDSM, all I know is that I really like bondage, sadism and masochism....and that I suck at disciplining. 

Most of all I love the intimacy and trust that you find with another.